VIDEO: GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT
According to Imago Relationship Theory, we are all created in a state of connection and joy, whole and complete.
Whilst doing the best that they can with what they have, inevitably, our childhood carers will fail to perfectly meet our needs. As a result of this we adapt to those experiences and in doing so form defensive structures and strategies designed to keep us safe and striving for our own peace and balance.
Inadvertently, these structures and strategies are often the very things which create conflict in our relationships.
Here Dr Harville Hendrix PhD and Dr Helen LaKelly Hunt talk about 'Getting the Love You Want' and the theory behind the practice.